He is 25, has a wife and my new granddaughter. They moved back in with us a year ago after having their own apartment for awhile. It was supposed to be to save money for putting a down payment on a house in Michigan because his work was transferring him there. Now that is not the plan anymore and they are still here. Whenever I bring up the subject of “Gee it would be nicer for you guys if you had your own place, privacy, etc.” I get him blowing up in my face about how rents are “too high” around here. .. No matter how gently I try to put it. His wife wants to move and she gets the same reaction from him. They are paying me some rent but they don’t cook or clean and they come and go without saying a word. They are both making good money so I think they can move out and get their own place. Does anybody have some suggestions on how I could bring this up without getting him to blow his top? I try to talk about this as gently and tactfully as I can.