I just asked a question about why my casual lover/bf would ask me a question about my parents financial status..at the last minute before he left. I’m still not quite sure why he’d ask that right then before he left, but is he trying to figure out if we can have a future together? He knows I’m just now getting into a good paying career & starting to be responsible about my money. He said he still wants to keep in touch, and if I needed someone to talk to. I know he’s going to be living back at his parents to save up to buy property, he’s 32. But get this, awhile back he said to me, “you or we should buy us a log cabin in the woods” (where he lives now) But now he had to move away, could he still be thinking long term w/me? He told me wants to get his finances right, and so am I, could this be a start for something better to come? His parents don’t make as much as mine, but I don’t care! I love people 4 who they are. How do make him feel @ ease, that I don’t care how much they make?
I do ask alot of questions about this dude, but alot of things have happened so I just need to know where I should stand…and maybe just take my time with him, until he gets himself right.