It all started when the love of my life came back into my life for the second time. She and her family moved in with me from out of state shortly afterwords. Big move, she started trying to sale her house. Long story short! I got deployed overseas for a year, she stayed in my/our house and it didn’t work out that we could get married before I left. Before I left I went out and partied and almost or did cheated on her. No sex but I did mess up. Well stupid me confessed when I could have gotten away with it. I wanted to be totally honest about my mistake. The question is, she kept our wedding ring and also will not talk about paying back a $2500 lone from me to pay her delingant land taxes. It was clearly a lone. There are many other things but to much to list. Should I ask for any of it back or just let it go. She left without even telling me, trashed the house and moved back to where she came from. It is very painful for both of us. Should I persue or let it go?
At this point neither of us want to get back together. Also she would not get a job like agreed until she did decide to leave. This was a year that I surported her and her three kids.