I am in the midst of a divorce and I’m trying to be civilized about the situation. Both of our names are on the mortgages, me as the primary and him as the secondary. I haved asked him to refinance the house, to which he says he can’t do and can’t afford. I then asked him to sell the house, but he refuses to do this. He says that he won’t sign the papers. If I’m the primary person on the mortgage, do I have any say in selling the house? Can I do anything without his signature?