I’m having issues letting go of my friendship/relationship with a girl that I met 2 months ago. We went from late conversations over the phone and going out to eat every weekend to her hiding her profile on facebook and for the most part breaking up with me over a text message. I admire the fact that she holds her Christian values close and when we first started hanging out I was skeptical of our age differences. I’m 26, and she is a 21 year old premed major. What hurts the most is that I met her in a call center gig that I took in January after getting laid off from my sales job. I was under so much stress between creditors calling, late on my mortgage, and now no work. I even had to sale my car to cut expenses. Than things started changing, after one month of working in a call center I found myself landing my dream sales job, and an awesome friendship with this women who as crazy as it sounds has been an open ear the whole time. From the conversations of the initial interview to going away for a week for training she has been there talking me through the whole thing. Even the long nights spent at her place laying in the bed talking were so encouraging for me that I would of never of hoped for a day like this. My friend’s say that I need to find someone on a maturity level as myself but the prayer and support that she gave me through such a tough time was awesome. I have been listening to John Mayer, Jack Johnson to ease the pain but it hurts even worse. She stated in her text that after reevaluating things that we are incompatible and that is why she wants to cut all ties. All I want is friendship and now she doesn’t even want to speak. It hurts because I sent flowers and candy to her job 2 days before she broke up with me, which she expressed that she loved. And now this….