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City refused to let me file missing persons on my dad till the house was sold??? Can they do that?

My father dissapeared 7 years ago and I had tried to file a missing persons report quite a few years ago and was basically told I am not allowed to do it because there wasn’t suffecient reason to even though he had been missing for quite a few years at that time.
My father was supposed to go to Mexico to give some money to his new wife down there, He was supposed to come back up to CA to sale his house then he was going to finish paying the two thousand he left on his ranch in Mexico.
He sold his Shop in L.A. and was supposed to sell his shop in Madera. He dissapeared after that. I found out that the state took control of the shop in madera for not paying land taxes then sold it.
It wasn’t until this year that the police department allowed me to file him a missing persons.
Why would they let me file now and not then?
It sounds to me like they wanted to wait till the shop was out of his name before I was able to file him missing.
Anyone know anything about the law that can help?
I am not sure why they would have me wait until the shop was out of his name, I just found it quite coincidental. I mean he had been missing for three years already when they refused to file the report the first time. You would think that that would have been suffecient enough time to worry.
I do know the city was bugging him to sell them his shop and he couldn’t because Child support had a lean on it for 2k. He could have paid it off if he wanted to but he didn’t want to sell it to them. He wanted to sell it to a private party but he dissapeared before he did anything.
As far as we know he still had over 75 grand in thebank and the house in his name. We never seen any of it because we couldn’t prove he was missing, Now it’s been 7 years, The house is gone now because property taxes was unpaid and who knows if anything is in the bank now. We’ve never checked.

I am a man interested in raising children, how do I find a woman who would marry a stay at home dad?

Not that I want to be lazy, I am in sales and would want to keep my very flexible job. I just want to pick my children up from school. Take them to the park. Cook dinner and have it waiting for my wife when she returns from her job where she makes more money than I do. I was raised in a family like this and want to be the same primary caregiver that my father was.

How to get a deed on a house?

My dad passed away last July and owned a house in Louisiana.He did not have a will,but in Louisiana it goes to the kids.Taxes are due in July of $1,500.00 and we cant pay it at this time.We dont want to loose the house and I was wondering if we got the deed,could we go get a loan for the taxes and pay it back once we sale the house?Also how do we get the will and deed with out going to Louisiana?I know nothing about any of this and need as much help as I can get.We still have a family living in the house that wont pick up the phone and have not paid rent since last June 2005.Somebody PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!Also my sister and I live in Atl.Ga,so its hard to make a trip to Louisiana.
How do we get the deed in our names?

Advice for a life time renter wanting to buy a house, any help?

My Dad and I live together. He is recently widowed, as I lost my mother last year. We want to do what my mom’s dream was, and that’s to own a home. Here’s the situation though, we are pretty clueless about what to do to get the best deal, and if we’ll be able to get a house in the first place. The reason why we are nervous is because my Dad is 52(i’m 21) and just from my assumptions, most mortgage companies will probably turn us down for a 30 year loan due to my Dad’s age, and I don’t think we could afford 15 years. We have a significant amount of money to put down, but the problem is, we don’t make that much in overall annual income. My Dad alone brings in about $30,000 and I’m looking/hoping to bring in about 5,000-10,000 this year. Any advice or help for us first time buyers, would be highly appreciated.

Are Adjustable Rate Mortgages a bad idea for me?

I’m about to buy my first house and many people are telling me different things about mortgages. Lenders are pushing the 5 Year ARM or 10 Year ARM. However my dad from the old school is telling me that a 30 fixed is the best because rates are so low anyways.

My situation:
I’m 25, I make 70K a year roughly 4K per month and I will be taking out a mortgage around 300 thousand dollars. I’m buying in LA buy only planning to live here for about 5-7 more years. I’m thinking that 10 year ARM would be the best option. What are some of your thoughts about fixed vs. ARMs. What is best for me?

30 year fixed right now is about 5.74%
5 ARM now is about 5.24%
10 ARM somewhere in between